FOR THE MEN IN THE HOUSE

[Max]

This is a serious question (notice I used the "correct" words).  I'm doing research for an erotic/horror novel I'm writing and this question is one that I think about from time to time, especially when I'm constantly being bugged for a blowjob.  

[MonsterX]

I got to go with fellatio. I've been told that it's because of some kind of insecurity. I don't think so.  

[playboy]

i do love bjs but if i had to pick id go with intercourse, because it just seems more intimate, and plus i always love getting a work out.

[Cemetery_Man]

I'll go with the mouth love but only if she's into it too, I don't want someone down there that doesn't really want to be down there. ;D

~~Will~~

[HORSE]

I have to go with intercourse, because I love to see it when a women is having a good time. That's why my favorite part of sex is GIVING oral. There's nothing better than that.

[Devil55]

Blowjobs were definitely invented by men because do you think a woman would go,You know what I think I'll suck on your dick for a while.

[MonsterX]

My ex did just that. In fact, there were several times I had to say no.(What was I thinking) She even went so far as to buy me dinner if I'd let her.

[Cemetery_Man]

I had an ex-girlfriend who was like that, she had an big oral fetish, she hardly ever wanted to have sex. It would get old sometimes, and I even wondered if she got more out of it then me becuase she seemed happier at times. Count your blessings though MonsterX becuase when their gone you end up missing that special deed very much, I let her slip through my fingers and I never saw her again.

~~Will~~

[Devil55]

I never complain if my girlfriend wants to give me head and thats all.Thats not a bad thing,Thats a good thing. ;D

[Goregirl]

I must speak out from a woman's perspective  on this. I know I enjoy giving my man oral pleasure, because it turns me on to turn him on that way. I've read books on how to do it better, little oral tricks, dealing with the gag reflex, stuff like that. So the better I got  at it, the more he likes it, and the more he likes it, the more I get out of it.
I do believe in equal opportunity oral pleasure. If I'm giving, I better get something in return.

[Cemetery_Man]

;D

[Max]

Honestly thought the vote would be more clear than it is.  60-40 in favor of blowjobs.  Almost equal  

Here's my perspective - giving them IS great...... when I'm totally turned on, both physically and emotionally, but when it's constantly used as a bargaining tool it gets old pretty fast.

And from what I've read and experienced, I think some of it has to do with the male ego's need to be dominant and enjoying seeing his woman in such a submissive position.  Be thankful guys you'll never have someone wrap their hand so tight in your hair and pull you right up against them so you can barely fucking breathe. I'm not saying ALL guys feel the need to be dominant ALL the time, but it is certainly common.  And sure, when I'm all hot and bothered I absolutely crave being "topped" by a man, but once in a while I want a night that's all about ME!

I've yet to meet a man who will give and give and give all night long just for the pleasure of his woman without totally expecting something in return.  Selfish bastards  

[Goregirl]

So true!  I do have to say that I've never had my hair pulled that hard, or been chocked to point that I couldn't breath. If my man, or any man did that to me, he'd be dealing with my teeth sinking into his member. I'd leave the agressive bastard a bloody mess!! Don't get me wrong, I don't mind my guy being agressive, but if he goes too far, he will pay the price.

[MonsterX]

DAMN!

[playboy]

i think going down on a girl is one of the worst things, but if im dating someone and thats what she wants, then ill do it, but in any other situation i would refuse.